“MY SHEEP HEAR MY VOICE” (John 10:27)
“Blah blah blah blah blah.” My best friend Jane was
talking, but my mind was racing ahead on something else, and I didn’t hear a
word she said. Some of us have the habit of letting our minds go ahead of where
our bodies are. We’re already thinking about the next thing and our focus
strays from the present moment. Sometimes we just get lazy and let our minds wander
off. But this isn’t a good thing, it isn’t being considerate of other people.
And if we want to get really good at hearing from the Lord, we need to practice
listening better to people, especially the ones we care about.
First John 4:20 says: “For he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen,
how can he love God whom he hath not seen?” Listening does take some real
effort, especially if you know you’re not that good at it. People want to be
heard. They want to have people interested in their lives. Listening is an act
of love. There are more verses in the Bible about God listening to us, than
verses saying we need to listen to Him. That’s because God IS Love and He’s an
expert at listening. If we want to be more like Him, we have to want to be good
listeners.
Here are a couple ideas that may help:
1. As soon as you can, after a conversation, go over the conversation in your
mind and try to write down what the other person said. If you know you’ve
missed some things, apologize, and try to remember to ask them again later.
Most people will forgive you and be glad you made the effort to ask again.
2. If you ask a question and you get an answer that’s complicated or you aren’t
clear on the person’s answer, repeat it back to the person to see if you got it
right.
These are two very simple and practical ways to build listening skills with
people. But we can also use these with the Lord. If you feel He’s telling you
something, write it down. If you’re unclear about what He’s saying to you,
repeat it back to Him. He’ll let you know if you got it. Remember, He loves
you. He’s a great listener and He wants us to be great at it too.
To live in the moment is a gift. We can think of it as ‘the
present’!
Love, Carolyn
NOTE: Take some time to look at nature this weekend. Nature
illustrates Biblical truths. I’ve written 2 books that show us many examples of
how that works.
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